6 Tips To Last Longer In Bed Naturally

In this article I want to give you 6 tips to last longer in bed.

Now before I share these 6 tips I want you to know something.

Premature ejaculation is not some "gene" you're born with, the result of your penis size or a part of your personality that you can never change.

Premature ejaculation is caused by specific things that you do before and during sex... Most of the time without even realizing it.

And if you want to last longer in bed you've got to take control of what you do before and during sex and start consciously doing things that will help you last longer.

So below you'll find 6 tips to last longer in bed, which if you make into a habit of doing before / during sex, then premature ejaculation can become a thing of the past for you.

1 – Urinate Before Sex

This is a simple trick most guys overlook.  Before sex make sure you use the bathroom.  If you don't then you'll have a full bladder which can put pressure on your genitals.  And with pressure on your genitals you're more likely to experience premature ejaculation.

2 – Master Your Pelvic Muscles

There's a muscle in your genital area you can actually use to stop your ejaculation.  This muscle is the same one you can use to stop the urine flow while urinating.  Take the time to strengthen this muscle by "squeezing it" throughout the day.  Eventually when it comes to sex this muscle will be so strong that if you squeeze it just before orgasm you can actually stop ejaculation from happening.

3 – Use Deep Breathing

Most men when it comes to sex out of excitement they end up taking lots of short shallow breaths.  The problem with shallow breathing and overexcitement is that it can actually encourage premature ejaculation.  Instead make a conscious effort to take some long deep breaths before and during sex.  This is a great way to calm yourself down so you last longer.

4 – Rub Her Clitoris

A great tip to last longer in bed is to thrust really deep inside her (without hurting her obviously).  And once you're in deep stay deep and just rub her clitoris with your pelvic bone.  What's great about this sex technique is that it reduces your stimulation meaning you can last longer, but it gives her a ton of pleasure at the same time.

5 – Masturbate For Longer

When you masturbate you actually end up conditioning yourself for how long you expect your body and penis to last during sex.  This means if you masturbate for a matter of minutes or even seconds then when it comes to sex you're not going to last any longer.  In future masturbate for much longer, as long as you'd like to last during sex.  If you find yourself close to orgasm just stop for a minute, then restart.

6 – Relax Your Muscles

A dead simple way of lasting longer in bed is to just relax your muscles more.  Normally you'll find that your muscles get more and more tense as you approach orgasm.  When you notice this happening just allow your muscles to relax again.  By consciously relaxing your muscles you can delay orgasm by several minutes.

So go try these 6 tips to last longer in bed and I hope they work out for you.

Oh, and go check out this cool new video I've just found posted online about how to last longer in bed.

It shows exactly what this guy, Jack Grave, did to go from lasting less than 10 seconds in bed to over 35 minutes, watch it at:

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Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Written by Oprah Expert: Michael Webb. "Lick By Lick: How To Go Down On a Woman and Have Her Begging For More"

Did you know that women can experience different
types of orgasms and can even have multiple
orgasms?

It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can
go years without an orgasm from their partner, and
we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she'll
reach climax, including the secret to multiple
orgasms:

1. Start outside the bedroom - Want to increase the
chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you
surprised her with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or
not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women
on because love and lovemaking are interconnected
in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can
bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than
just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

2. Relax her - It’s very hard for women to orgasm if
they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.
Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away
the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina - Did you know that prolonged
foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual
tension and often the anticipation will be very
powerful.

4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention
on the woman first, you'll make love to her much
more passionately. Think about it! If you've
finished first and decide to help her come, you
won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed
to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to
help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you're about to come, simply
move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a
hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside
again. Now continue pleasuring. :D

6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural
lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned
on. By using a product substitute, you're only
fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll
instantly know if things are working; but with
them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once
you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a
little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from
further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making
this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,
whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a
zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is
located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There
are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are
made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she
can control the friction to her clitoris and/or
G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a
woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I
didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done
to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much
more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes,
and mix it up with lots of different movements!
However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything
there is to know before poking your tongue around
there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using
right away to give women the most earth-shattering
experience of their lives.

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women
oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women
frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus.
Learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with oral sex by visiting: "Lick By Lick: How To Go Down On a Woman and Have Her Begging For More"

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